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All women at least have one secret she hides from her husband. We asked eight women and here are their answers to the question.
1. Stuff we buy
"It's frankly not a big deal because, for us, it's just things for ourselves like clothes, shoes, even a night cream. Especially if I bought them with my own money, I feel not obligated to tell him."
2. Thoughts of sex with the husband
"Yes, I think about it more often than he can imagine, especially in the days when the hormone kicks in. Sometimes, I feel like jumping into in my car, driving to my husband's office and just do it right there!"
3. Tremendous food galore
"I love eating good food, a lot. But I'm afraid my husband will judge me because I eat too much that I'll gain weight. So whenever I had a chance to have some good food, I eat a lot without him and saying a word about it."
4. Jealousy
"My husband is really good at bottling up his feelings. I secretly want him to show some jealousy, not too much, just a bit, enough to make me feel like he acknowledges me and appreciates me. Sometimes I wish that I can just flirt around with another man just to make him jealous."
5. Fantasy about hot celebrity guys
"Yes I'm married but I still can have the fantasies about hot celebrity guys like I used to when I was a teenager, single, and free. It also doesn't mean that I don't love him or I want him to be like one of them. I choose not to tell him about this just because it's not that big deal. It's not like I'd leave him and be with those hunks I see on TV."
6. Share many things with her girlfriends
"My girlfriends are like my other half too. They're so important in my life; they even exist before I met my husband. So, yes, I told them so many things, I share some stories more than I've ever admitted to my husband, but of course, less than what he fears. I still know the boundaries, he also knows that."
7. Afraid of losing the sparks
"I love my husband with all my heart, I really do. But I can't guarantee if someday I'll lose the spark, I'll never feel that falling-in-love sizzle again. It's scary, you know. That's why I never talk about this with him. I'm keeping this fear all to myself."
8. Googling the exes
"I just wanted to know, that's all. And I didn't just google my exes, but also his. I don't want to talk about this with my husband because I don't want him to think that I'm a freak or something, or I cannot move on with my life. I'm only doing it to satisfy my curiosity, nothing more."
