To build a family of our own is one of the main reasons why we get married. But then again, starting a family is not as easy as playing house. Some newlywed couples prefer to postpone the pregnancy until they are totally ready. But is holding off pregnancy really the best thing to do?
Pros: You will have enough time to save up
Most newlyweds feel like they are not financially ready for a baby. They prefer to wait until they can afford to raise a child. Since having a child can add approximately $500 to the family's monthly budget, it might be a good idea to take some time to save money before getting pregnant.
Pros: You will have quality moment with your partner
When the baby arrives, the relationship between you and your spouse will change. Most newlyweds think that they should spend quality time with one-another without divided love and attention from children shortly after getting married.
Cons: Your biological clock is ticking
When they say the best time to be pregnant is in the 20's, they mean it, because physical and hormonal differences are at the root of what makes pregnancy different with age.
Pros: You will have a chance to pursue your dreams
Travel to Africa? Get promoted at work? We all know that children will take most of your time, no wonder there are some couples who delay parenthood and choose to go after their dreams first.
Pros: You will have a time to prepare yourself mentally
Bringing a baby into the world can be an emotional roller-coaster ride. Parents, who got pregnant before they are psychologically ready, get overwhelmed by the issues of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenthood. Husbands and wives can eliminate some of the negative emotions by being emotionally prepared.
Cons: Age gap Issue
Sure, you want to be both physically and emotionally present for your children. Make sure that age gap isn't too vast to be a problem.
