Photography: Phil Chester
Ever felt that your life is stuck in a rut? When life is predictable and you live through the motions of your life wearily. When that happens you yearn for something different and exciting. You take a break from your humdrum life and try some new experiences. Go on an exotic holiday. Take up a hobby. Explore a new career. A couple's sexual relationship will at times feel like it's a routine after a period of elapsed time. The sexual relationship is not only for the sake of procreation but also meant to add some zest to the natural need of satisfying the couple's desires. Usually, they would routinely have sex in the bedroom and in their own bed. Both of them are so familiar with the experience that they often get weary and that can dull the desires. Fear not! Take a break from predictability and let your imagination and creativity roam free. Entertain your partner and yourself. Your home is a stage for your adventures and your furniture can be props to your play.
Here is some helpful advice:
1. Find the right time to be home alone. Privacy helps unlock your inhibitions.
2. Live the dream. Try to be different.
3. Close the curtains of all your windows and lock all doors to your home.
4. Turn up the sound of your TV. And most importantly.....
5. Surprise yourself.
Many couples have been candid in sharing to us some of the exciting places they have visited in their own home to get intimate other than in their own bedroom and bed. The bathroom, in the shower, on the floor, on the table, on a chair, on a couch, against the wall, in the car parked in the garage… The list is long and can only limited by our own lack of imagination. Sexual intimacy is an adventure to embark on and needs some creativity to make it exciting.
