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Who said you should stop flirting with your man just because you're already married? There seem to be a misconception with the idea that once you are married, you will no longer be able to feel that excitement and butterfly feelings in your stomach. Here's the truth: Marriage doesn't bring dullness into the relationship, but we dull the relationship when we stop putting effort into keeping the relationship romantic.
When we still continue to treat our partners the way we did in the beginning of the relationship, we will inevitably be in a very loving and fulfilling marriage. One of the ways we can keep things exciting is to continue to flirt with our man! And how do we do this exactly? Below are some tips of how to be flirtatious with your own husband.
1. Look good for your man. Ladies, we need to understand that men are a lot more visual than us. Though we too like nice looking things, men are a lot more turned on by visual stimuli. This basically means, when we put an effort and dress up to look good for our man, to them, this is a huge turn on. Sure, he is with you not just for your looks, but it would be such a treat for him if you put on that sexy dress he likes or the outfit that compliments your body. Do it and watch his eyes just loving what he sees.
2. Compliment him. Sometimes we can take our men for granted when it comes to letting them know just how special they are to us. Just as much as we love a compliment from our partner, they too would love to hear some from us. Let your man know how handsome he looks today, how proud you are to be with him or how safe you feel around him. There is nothing wrong with boosting your man's confidence though he may not even need it. In fact, knowing how much you appreciate him can be such a turn on!
3. Keep your hands on him! Think of it like you are back in the good old days of dating your man, when you would try touching him in a flirtatious way to let him know that you are interested. Actions speak louder than words, right? So, go ahead and give him little kisses here and there, caress his arms or hold his hands, and give him hugs in public. Let him know that you love touching him in any way possible. This will excite him and let him know that you want him!
4. Surprise him. Spice up your relationship by leaving love notes in unexpected places such as his wallet, his lunch box or in his bag. Text him randomly throughout the day, letting him know that he is on your mind (but try not to over do it!). Suggest a date night out or date night in; you can even set up a cozy love nest and watch a movie together. Another thing you could do at home is to play board games together and add 'stripping' to the rules of the game to make things a lot more fun.
When you still flirt with one another you simply won't be able to help but to feel giddy and excited again with your partner. Isn't that what we all want? To feel content and happy but still feel so excited to be with our partner? Don't stop making an effort with your man and you will find yourself in a much more fulfilling relationship.
