We all know how wedding planning can drive a bride-to-be a little bit (okay, maybe a lot) up the wall, regardless how great the wedding planner is. Sometimes you just cannot help but to worry, get stressed out and, all of a sudden, become perfectionists, right? Your wedding is, after all, a once in a lifetime thing. But here's the thing: Once you are on that train of wanting to make sure every, single detail in your wedding is perfect, you are really setting yourselves up for stress. In your heads, there are a million details about your wedding and the worries you have about it become endless. What's really sad about the wedding stress is that the days, weeks and months leading up to your wedding becomes all about that one single day whilst the rest of your lives becomes a bit of a blur.
You might even end up forgetting something really important and what really matters: You finally get to marry the love of your lives. This wedding is one day and it will not define your marriage. Here is some advice and reminders that may help you get through the weeks before your wedding in a stress-free way:
It is okay to worry because you want to make sure that everything goes smoothly on the wedding day, and while it's easier said that done, try not to worry too much. The key is to check yourself before you wreck yourself, because if you don't take a second to just hit pause and realize that you are stressing much more than you should be, then you simply won't stop. Your wedding day is already going to be a special day regardless of how it turns out in the end. Remember, you are going to start a wonderful and exciting new chapter with the man you fell in love with. So our main advice is to please, enjoy it. Don't get too caught up with the wedding planning that you forget about the joys of getting married.