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Relationships rarely come to an end out of nowhere. And rather than because of one huge problem, the demise of a relationship is usually caused by an accumulation of many small problems. Unimportant things or common problems that you've often heard of can be considered as small problems. On its own, it might not be much. But accumulated, and you've got a time bomb on your hands that would be ready to explode at any given time. These time bombs would eventually end your relationship or cause your relationship to be unhappy if you ignored them.
1. Lack of communication
Having a good communication is vital to every relationship. A good flow and mode of communication can bring couples closer and help them to solve misunderstanding. It is also a great way to express love. When you cannot talk to your partner, or when you don't feel secure enough to openly discuss things that need to be clarified, that's a time bomb waiting to explode.
2. Incompatibility
To be compatible means that you are well suited enough to have a harmonious relationship. No relationship is without conflict, but when you are compatible - socially, physically, and intellectually ─ you will work it out in a more timely manner. Frustrations over incompatibility can bring your relationship to an abrupt demise.
3. Financial problems
Financial problems are only one factor to the destruction of a relationship. It is not the main cause. There is no middle ground when it comes to money and disagreements over financial responsibility can cause a lot of tension in a relationship. If someone you are involved in a relationship with has money problems, it is wise to find out if he/she can solve it and whether you can learn to live with it before making your relationship permanent.
4. Addiction
Addiction is a big problem that can bring chaos into a relationship. A person can be addicted to substances, drugs, alcohol, gambling, and sexual promiscuity. A person may change and while forgiveness is a trait valued in any relationship, "I won't do it again" is not a guarantee and can be a time bomb waiting to blow up your entire relationship.
If you recognize any of these time bombs in your relationship, you might want to do yourself a favor and start paying attention to them before it's too late. Like any kind of bombs, they can be defused if you talk about it and work it out with your partner early on. Don't let them eventually explode as it sends your relationship into oblivion.
