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Everyone is entitled to their own fantasies and being married is not a good enough reason for us to stop fantasizing. Having fantasies, to dream and to desire, letting our minds wander to places and people is such a pleasure. The sin and the guilty feelings are the reason why most of us, especially women, keep them a secret. You're fully aware that the secret will hurt your husband's feelings and sharing it won't accomplish anything. You know that your fantasies would really upset your husband. So most of women opt to shut up and keep them in our minds just because we're too scared or too embarrassed of how he will respond to it. Annie Bennett, a counselor and author of The Love Trap said, "a little fantasy is not an issue – it can be helpful to the couple if it is in moderation – only when it is a secret side to a person and fantasy is harbored, division takes place."
Eventually, we managed to gather confessions from a group of women who revealed their top fantasies that they don't tell their husbands – but they did tell us! Surprisingly, it's not always about sex.
Hot celebrity guys
"I am a big fan of TV drama. Of course I love the storylines, but watching the cute hunks is very entertaining. Sometimes I got too excited I keep imaging one of them, well sometimes two, while making love with my husband. It's fun and easy, I just have to close my eyes!"
A night and morning for self
"I am a stay-at-home mom of 4 kids under 6 years-old who practically has no time to spend on "me-time". I would kill for one night in a nice hotel room by myself! I think I'll have a good sleep, a nice breakfast in bed, drink coffee while it's hot and enjoy a long bath without any interruption."
To swing, maybe?
"My husband and I have no problem in the bedroom so I have nothing to complain about, plus we're both faithful in keeping the sacred vows, staying in the commitment and be truthful and loyal with each other. But, I always wonder if we could swing? You know, switch sexual partners and have sex with other people? That would be exciting!"
Taking on multiple husbands
"I have once wondered what would it be if I got to be polyandry. I was just wondering, how does it feel to have more than one husband, more than one sex-partners, and the attention from multiple men at the same time. It's just a crazy thought, I know. But I just keep wondering, and I get excited. But of course, my husband would throw a fit, so I'm keeping this to myself."
